
THE BIG FRIGHT IN HUNGARY: 5 Queer Monologues on Being Scapegoated
BUDAPEST: Within 24 hours, Budapest Pride was banned because the government believes children need to be protected from LGBTQ+ individuals. I reached out to Hungarian lesbians and queer people to get their side of the story. Their raw testimonies, gives snapshots of what it's like to live in a system that is attacking their right to be visible in public space.
Under the rader in Sitges - one of the worlds most famous gay spaces
SITGES: I can't claim to understand what it's like to be a gay man, but a week in Sitges, south of Barcelona, gave me a glimpse into a different world. I was immediately struck by the sheer number of spaces dedicated to the community – bars, festivals, and clubs – and the comfort with which gay men held hands in public, a sight I rarely see elsewhere. It made me realize how much visibility and acceptance matter. This is my take on an off-season week in the Spanish gay paradise.
Paris in Six Queer Acts
PARIS: The lesbian and queer life in Paris offered a window into hope and amazement, showing me what life could be. My conclusion is that lesbians in Paris can have a very fulfilling life with many different options for meeting people and socializing. But queer Paris also has an important past from which we can learn and be inspired. The following scenes offer a glimpse into what queer Paris can look like.
Creating Kings and Queens
MALMO: I used to only read about women breaking free, creating lives of their own making. At 54, to my surprise, I joined their club. I suspect I was born with a rebellious spirit that refused anything less than a life in freedom. And now, I can proudly proclaim: I am living it. This is about what it means to truly live your dream.
Beyond the Spark — How Lesbians Can Find Love
SKALA ERESSOS: Lesbian relationships? They're a wild ride, no matter where you're at! For so many of us, it's still the biggest mystery ever! But guess what? I had the opportunity to meet Dr. Ruth Schwartz, who has the secret to building healthy lasting lesbian relationships. Let’s dive in!
Therese’s Legacy Above the Clouds: A Queer Couple Reclaims the Austrian Countryside
TRAHÜTTEN: There is a queer comeback in the Austrian countryside. This summer I visited Austria's first queer hotel run by the non-binary queer artist couple Io Tondolo and Itshe Petz. Dedicated to welcoming queer people back to rural life, they even host women-only events for lesbians, bisexual, transgender, and heterosexual women.
Diary: The one about the tie
DIARY: Two days ago, I purchased my first ties—two Yves Saint Laurent in a Malmö vintage shop. The clerk and I estimated them to be from the 1970s. That evening, I attempted to tie one, resorting to YouTube tutorials, but lacked the patience to master the knot.
Berlin's Secret Twin
LESBOS: Berlin and Skala Eressos. Two of my favorite lesbian havens on earth. At first glance, they seem worlds apart. But as I started writing, I realized something profound: Skala Eressos might just be Berlin's long-lost twin sister. Here's why...
Romeo in the Garden
LESBOS: The Greek woman, in her late 70s threw us a curveball that night. We were enjoying beers on our balconies when, out of the blue, she strutted onto the scene like a mischievous Romeo.
Victoria's Berlin: The Ultimate Lesbian Guide
BERLIN Searching for the ultimate lesbian guide to Berlin? Look no further! Victoria Rúe, our guest blogger and a seven-year Berlin veteran, knows the city's best queer clubs and bars.
Kill your darlings in Berlin
BERLIN I went to one of the best lesbian cities on earth. I was going to stay three nights and ended up staying two weeks. This round in Berlin mesmerized me. At the same time I could not help wondering if I had come too late to the party.
I've got the lesbian fever, and Berlin is the cure
BERLIN Just like people can leave you unmoved, cities can too. Berlin is just not one of them. It has marked me like a tattoo and has given me the lesbian fever.
My Berlin Awakening
BERLIN The lesbian scene in Berlin hit me hard. I felt a sense of belonging and discovered what I'd been searching for. This experience also highlighted the complexities and challenges of being a lesbian, making me understand why it can be confusing.
A Visit to My Future Self
BERLIN My search for connection on my lesbian tour led me to constantly ask locals about places to meet other women. Then, in Berlin, I stumbled upon the Silverfuture bar, and it was like hitting the jackpot. The energy there was so unexpected and exciting, it left me pleasantly surprised.
Plan Your Queer Lesbian Festivals 2025
EUROPE: If you have wondered where all the lesbians are, I can reveal that they are here, taking part in some of the lesbian/queer festivals. Please let me know if you miss your favorite. The list is a living document and will be updated regularly.
A Tase of Lesbian Europe - Your Pocket Guide to Queer Spaces
EUROPE: I've been researching and visiting lots of lesbian spaces and have put together a list of lesbian/queer bars, clubs, events and bookshops. Is your favorite on here? Let me know if I've missed it, and I'll add it to the next update.
On the Hunt for Lesbians in Vienna
VIENNA Marea Alta, once a lesbian haven, has transformed into a hub for the broader queer community. After two evenings of encountering mostly queer men, I finally struck gold, finding the lesbians I'd been searching for.
IN MY NEXT LIFE I WILL REINCARNATE AS AN ARTIST
VIENNA: Do you want to dive into a gender-fluid world and live in a never-ending pride? This visit to the art world is for you.
The Shelf Where My Story Lives
VIENNA If you ever wonder why we need physical bookstores, let me tell you about my visit to Vienna's oldest gay and lesbian bookstore, Löwenherz. Seeing shelves overflowing with books celebrating lesbian and queer lives, stories that had been so often silenced in the "normal" world, brought tears to my eyes. It was a powerful reminder of the importance of these spaces – havens where our stories are finally seen, heard, and embraced.
Glitch: A Bookshop Steeped in Feminist History
MUNICH When the original owners decided to retire, the future of Lillemor's seemed uncertain. But in a testament to the enduring spirit of feminist activism, a new collective stepped in. Four women, determined to preserve this vital space, purchased the shop and breathed new life into it as Glitch.
